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<div data-element-id="elm_guqgWvYsQniAt_N-tk0XEw" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style></style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center zptext-align-mobile-center zptext-align-tablet-center " data-editor="true"><p style="text-align:left;">Let me paint you a picture.</p><p style="text-align:left;"><br/></p><p><span><span></span></span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>You've spent three weeks putting together a social media post. It's well-written. The graphic looks great. You've picked the right time to post and you've even boosted it with a small ad budget. It goes out. A few likes. A couple of shares. Maybe a comment from your mum.&nbsp;</span><span style="font-weight:bold;">Nothing</span>.</p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>You try again. Different post, different platform, same result. So you start wondering if you need a better graphic, a bigger ad budget, a different platform entirely. You hire a freelancer. You buy a course. Still nothing. You start thinking maybe you're just not a 'marketing person.'</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>But here's the thing I want to tell you: the problem almost certainly isn't your budget, your creative, or even which platform you chose.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The problem is the sequence.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span><br/></span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span></span></p><div><h3>The Date Analogy Nobody Wants to Hear</h3><br/><div>I want you to imagine you're on a first date.</div><br/><div>You've barely sat down. The menus haven't arrived. And your date leans across the table and says: &quot;So. I'd love for you to come home with me tonight. I think we'd be really great together. Want to?&quot;</div><br/><div>Awkward, right? Presumptuous. A little alarming.</div><br/><div>You'd be signalling for the waiter before the entrées were ordered. But here's the uncomfortable truth: this is exactly what most small business marketing does. Every. Single. Day.&nbsp; It introduces itself and immediately asks for something. Buy now. Book a call. Sign up today. Limited time offer.&nbsp;</div><br/><div>The ask comes before the relationship. Before the trust. Before the person on the other side of the screen has any reason to say yes.</div><br/><div>In my world, I call this DTF marketing. If you don't know what 'DTF' means, just chat to any female who's been on Tinder and you'll get a pretty quick education.&nbsp; Sadly, for a lot of busy, small business entrepreneurs, the analogy holds - they dive straight into the big ask, before they build any trust.</div><div><br/></div><div>&nbsp;Great marketing isn't a transaction. It's a courtship. And if you skip the courtship, you don't get the sale. You get ignored.</div><br/><div><span><span><h4 style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Why We Skip the Courtship</span></h4><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>I don't think business owners do this because they're pushy or oblivious. I think they do it because they're impatient — understandably so. You've got a great product or service. You know it works. You know it could genuinely help people. So why wouldn't you just... tell them?</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Because knowing something and trusting someone are two completely different things.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Think about the best first dates you've ever had — the conversations where time disappeared, where you felt genuinely seen, where you left thinking about the next one before you'd even reached the car park. What made those work wasn't the other person's résumé. It wasn't their qualifications or their pitch. It was the way they made you feel understood before you'd said very much at all.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>That's the magic trick. And it's available to any small business willing to do the work.</span></p><br/><h4 style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">The Sequence Is Everything</span></h4><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Great marketing — like great dating — happens in stages. Not because we're playing games, but because trust takes time to build. You can't shortcut it. You can only earn it.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Here's what the sequence looks like when it's working:</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;"></span></p><span><span><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">First, you attract attention. </span><span>Not with a sales pitch — with something genuinely interesting, useful, entertaining, or relatable. Something that makes your ideal customer think: &quot;This person gets it.&quot;</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Then, you engage their emotions. </span><span>You tell stories. You name frustrations they haven't been able to articulate. You show them they're not alone. You build familiarity.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">Then, you earn their trust. </span><span>Through consistency. Through useful content. Through proof — case studies, testimonials, demonstrations of your thinking. You make deposits into a trust account before you ever attempt a withdrawal.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">And finally — when all of that is in place — you make an offer. </span><span>And because you've done the work, the offer doesn't feel like an interruption. It feels like the obvious next step.</span></p><div><span><br/></span></div></span></span><p style="margin-left:36pt;margin-right:36pt;margin-bottom:14pt;"><span style="font-style:italic;"></span></p><br/><h4 style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">What This Looks Like in Practice</span></h4><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>A few years back I worked with a rugby franchise here in New Zealand — the Canterbury Crusaders. Twelve Super Rugby titles, one of the most recognised sporting brands in the country. You'd think their marketing would basically run itself.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>But the brief wasn't about brand awareness. It was about moving tickets — and specifically about converting a warm audience into buyers.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The campaign we ran didn't start with an offer. It started with content that gave existing fans reasons to feel connected — stories, behind-the-scenes moments, content that deepened the relationship rather than immediately extracting from it. Only once that emotional warmth was established did the commercial push begin.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The result? A $32,000 ad spend that returned $180,000. Not because the ads were magic. Because the sequence was right.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The same principle works at every scale. I've seen it generate 450 leads from a single Facebook comment for a solo nutritionist with no ad budget. I've seen it take a San Francisco software startup from zero to $1.8 million in revenue in eighteen months. The number of zeros changes. The principle doesn't.</span></p><br/><h4 style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">The Real Question to Ask</span></h4><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Most small business owners ask: &quot;What should I be posting?&quot;</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>It's the wrong question.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The right question is: &quot;Where is this piece of content supposed to sit in the relationship I'm building with my customer?&quot;</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Is it designed to reach someone new who's never heard of you? Then it needs to be immediately interesting — not immediately promotional. Is it for someone who's been following you for a while? Then it can go a little deeper, be a little more direct. Is it for someone who's already downloaded your lead magnet and opened your last three emails? Then yes — now is probably a good time to make an offer.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The content itself matters less than where it lands in the sequence.</span></p><br/><h4 style="margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">So, What Now?</span></h4><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Have a look at your marketing from the last three months. Not what you hoped it would do — what it actually did. Look at the posts, the emails, the ads.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Then ask yourself honestly: how much of it was designed to attract and engage? And how much of it was jumping straight to the ask?</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>If the ratio is off — if most of what you've put out there has been offers and promotions with very little in between — that's your answer. That's the leak in the system.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The good news is that fixing the sequence costs nothing. It just requires a shift in thinking. Stop asking how to sell more and start asking how to earn the right to sell.</span></p><p style="margin-left:36pt;margin-right:36pt;margin-bottom:14pt;"><span style="font-style:italic;">The ask is the easy part. It's everything before the ask that does the work.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Do that well, and the sales follow.</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span><br/></span></p><div><span><span><span><h4 style="margin-bottom:10pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">WANT TO GO DEEPER?</span></h4><div><span style="font-weight:700;"><br/></span></div><p style="margin-bottom:5pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">📖&nbsp; THE BOOK</span></p><p style="margin-bottom:6pt;"><span>Marketing on a Shoestring is the complete guide to building a marketing system that works — without a big budget or a marketing degree. 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</div></div></div></div></div></div> ]]></content:encoded><pubDate>Sun, 14 Jun 2026 01:11:56 +0000</pubDate></item><item><title><![CDATA[AI Slop and the Case for Being Unapologetically Human in Your Marketing]]></title><link>https://www.stulees.com/blogs/post/the-marketing-mistake-that-s-costing-you-sales-and-it-has-nothing-to-do-with-your-budget2</link><description><![CDATA[Something shifted in the last couple of years, and I think most business owners have felt it even if they haven't been able to name it. Content got wor ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="zpcontent-container blogpost-container "><div data-element-id="elm_gxoHsCj4TVahx2OCVn_XhQ" data-element-type="section" class="zpsection "><style type="text/css"></style><div class="zpcontainer-fluid zpcontainer"><div data-element-id="elm_g4O_VJsxRWKDL2A5AuNlCQ" data-element-type="row" class="zprow zprow-container zpalign-items- zpjustify-content- " data-equal-column=""><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_KCuJVMWuS5GfF6DBYcy8GQ" data-element-type="column" class="zpelem-col zpcol-12 zpcol-md-12 zpcol-sm-12 zpalign-self- "><style type="text/css"></style><div data-element-id="elm_nrIYI-t1QL2aphvGmvb4_w" data-element-type="heading" class="zpelement zpelem-heading "><style></style><h2
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<div data-element-id="elm_294-La7LS8W7yjOvEx7DzA" data-element-type="text" class="zpelement zpelem-text "><style></style><div class="zptext zptext-align-center zptext-align-mobile-center zptext-align-tablet-center " data-editor="true"><p><span><span></span></span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Something shifted in the last couple of years, and I think most business owners have felt it even if they haven't been able to name it.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Content got worse. Not a little worse. Dramatically, visibly, almost embarrassingly worse. Blog posts that say a lot without saying anything. Social captions that sound like they were written by someone who has heard about human experience but never actually had one. Newsletters that arrive in your inbox and feel like they were produced at scale — because they were.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>There's a term for this. I call it AI slop.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Technically coherent. Vaguely on-topic. Completely devoid of anything resembling a soul.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The internet is now saturated with it. And small businesses — the very people who had the most to gain from AI tools — are among its biggest victims. Not just as the audience for it, but as its unwitting producers.</span></p><div style="text-align:left;"><br/></div><div style="text-align:left;"><br/></div><h4 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">How We Got Here</span></h4><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>When AI content generation became accessible and affordable, it felt like a gift. And for a moment, it was. The ability to draft a blog post in minutes, generate ten social captions from a single idea, repurpose a video transcript into an email — genuinely useful. A legitimate time-saver for people who were already stretched thin.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>But something went wrong when the tool became the strategy.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Business owners who'd been struggling with content consistency found they could now publish every day. So they did. Agencies that charged for content found they could produce ten times the volume for the same cost. So they did. Platforms filled up. Feeds became noisier. And the thing that everyone was producing started to look and sound the same.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-left:36pt;margin-right:36pt;margin-bottom:14pt;"><span style="font-style:italic;">The audience noticed. They couldn't always articulate why a piece of content felt hollow. But they felt it. And they scrolled past it.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The algorithm noticed too — though not in the way you might hope. Engagement dropped on AI-heavy content not because platforms penalised it directly, but because humans stopped engaging with it. Less engagement means less reach. Less reach means the content might as well not exist.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The shortcut became a dead end.</span></p><div style="text-align:left;"><br/></div><h4 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">The Opportunity Hidden in the Flood</span></h4><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Here's the thing nobody's saying loudly enough: when everything around you becomes artificial, authenticity becomes a competitive advantage.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Not the word &quot;authentic&quot; as marketing people have been using it for the past decade — polished, carefully curated, strategically vulnerable. A highlight reel with a self-aware caption. That's not authenticity. That's the performance of authenticity, and people are increasingly good at spotting the difference.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>I'm talking about something rawer than that. Messier. More honest.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>I call it being Unapologetically Human. And right now, in the middle of the AI slop flood, it is the single most powerful competitive advantage available to a small business owner.</span></p><div style="text-align:left;"><br/></div><h4 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">What Unapologetically Human Actually Looks Like</span></h4><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>It's not about being anti-AI. I use AI tools every day — for research, for structuring ideas, for the unglamorous operational stuff. Used well, AI is a brilliant assistant.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>But your voice is not a task to be delegated.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Unapologetically Human means </span><span style="font-weight:700;">showing up on video when you're not perfectly groomed.</span><span> The slight awkwardness, the real background, the unscripted moment — these are the things that make people trust you. Polished production signals a brand. Genuine presence signals a person. And people buy from people.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>It means </span><span style="font-weight:700;">sharing an opinion that not everyone will agree with.</span><span> Safe content is invisible content. The posts that generate genuine engagement are the ones that take a position, draw a line, say something that some people will nod vigorously at and others will scroll past. Both outcomes are correct.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>It means </span><span style="font-weight:700;">talking about a failure as openly as a win.</span><span> The thing that made you trust someone the most in your life probably wasn't their credentials. It was a moment where they were honest about something that didn't go right. Vulnerability isn't weakness in marketing — it's connection.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>It means </span><span style="font-weight:700;">telling the story that only you can tell.</span><span> Your specific path. Your specific client. Your specific industry insight built from your specific experience. No AI can replicate that because it doesn't exist in any training data. It exists only in you.</span></p><div style="text-align:left;"><br/></div><h4 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">The Small Business Advantage</span></h4><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Here's the irony: the people who stand to gain most from the Unapologetically Human approach are small business owners — the exact group who've been most tempted to lean on AI to compensate for limited resources.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>A large corporation cannot be human in its marketing. It can simulate it, occasionally convincingly, but the scale at which big brands operate makes genuine personal connection structurally impossible. They have committees and approval processes and brand guidelines and legal sign-off between an idea and execution.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>You don't.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>You can post a video from your car park before a client meeting. You can write an email at 6am from your desk while the thought is still fresh. You can respond to a comment in a way that makes the person feel like you actually read what they wrote — because you did.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-left:36pt;margin-right:36pt;margin-bottom:14pt;"><span style="font-style:italic;">That's not a consolation prize for not having a big marketing budget. That's a structural advantage that no amount of budget can buy.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>The most engaging small business content I've ever seen wasn't produced by an agency. It was produced by a business owner who decided to stop hiding behind polish and just show up as themselves.</span></p><div style="text-align:left;"><br/></div><h4 style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:8pt;"><span style="font-weight:700;">A Practical Starting Point</span></h4><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>If you want to test this without overhauling your entire content approach, try one thing this week.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Write — or record — one piece of content that you'd be slightly uncomfortable publishing. Not offensive or inappropriate. Just genuinely honest. A real opinion. A story about something that didn't go to plan. A behind-the-scenes moment that you'd normally filter out because it's not &quot;on brand.&quot;</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Post it. Watch what happens.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>In my experience, the posts that feel most exposing are the ones that generate the most genuine response. Because your audience isn't looking for perfection. They're looking for a real person to connect with.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>In a world drowning in AI slop, being real is the rarest thing you can offer.</span></p><p style="text-align:left;margin-bottom:10pt;"><span>Offer it.</span></p><div style="text-align:left;"><span><br/></span></div><p></p></div>
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